Why Being in Love Is a Form of Desperate Delusion
June 1st 2007 14:26
Why is it that you cant just make up your mind over whether you are in love with him, or just plain delusional. You think that youre in love with when youre not. Your conscious says yes while the subconscious keeps yelling 'you must be joking' followed by 'are you mad'. Why do you even think for one second that you like him for that matter. What really is it about him that makes you believe that you are deeply in love with him. Just another cover up for how desperate you are for some affection. To satsify an inner yearning to be with someone that will never come full circle. Is just another irrate psychological state that no-one including yourself can understand. Or is it because no-one knows exacty what being in love is. A complete and total subconscious trait that exists to refute the concept of being in love all together. For that is why it is always there to remind you 'what were you thinking' while telling you that being in love is just termperal mental state that has no bearing over you whatsoever. A complete form of illusion that is felt to make one feel better about them self in times of desperate need. Where the consicous thought of being in love compensates for the delusion in the first place.
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Comment by Lilla
Enviro Warrior
An Extra Ordinary Life
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Isn't love delicious... like a lottery, you never know until the last minute, sometimes?
Ooh the sheer delight of anticipation!
The advice of an older woman?
Chill, take your time, you never had him before today, and you may not have him tomorrow... let it unfold slowly. Stand firm in your beliefs and who you are. You should not have to change to have love, but be more of who you are to have it... one could almost say that love is as close to your highest ideal as you have... trouble is people don't want to wait anymore... again I blame consumerism.
Have it now! ..buy it now! ... watch the movie, here it should be like this, it shouldn't be like that, bla bla bla... there is no delusion in knowing that a soul mate will also frustrate... they are here to push buttons, if you forget that, you can get stung.
It's working out the differences that makes the thing intersting, isn't it?
Lilla ...